Author Archives: Sarah's Story

Sometimes I think about the horror

TW: animal abuse Sometimes I think about the horror of what he did. Listen, I’ve gone through a LOT of therapy. I’m in a good place. And, the fact stands that I experienced true horror and that is part of my story. Of our story. So sometimes I think about the horror. The cruelty. SometimesContinue reading “Sometimes I think about the horror”

Anger + Moving on (Daisy’s birthday)

Yesterday was Daisy’s birthday. I woke up and immediately felt angry. Anger at the fact that she’s gone, that she got one birthday, that she was only a baby when he killed her. Anger that the system failed her and no criminal charges were or ever will be brought against her. Angry at the factContinue reading “Anger + Moving on (Daisy’s birthday)”

Updates (Court + Life)

Since I last posted, they’ve had two court dates, essentially to clear the whole skipping court/fugitive debacle and get things back on track with the case. As it stands, the next pretrial hearing is April 26. As for me, I compartmentalize my life fairly well. And I’m getting tired of it. I’ve loved my careerContinue reading “Updates (Court + Life)”

I removed the post: my statement to police of the day MB killed Kirby

That day was by far the worst day of my life. A year and a half ago, on the 1 year anniversary of that day, I made a blog post sharing the statement I provided police of everything that happened that day. It’s gruesome. And yesterday, I removed it. From time to time, I getContinue reading “I removed the post: my statement to police of the day MB killed Kirby”

He missed court so now he might forfeit his bond

MB missed court yesterday. Woof. You can’t do that when you’re charged with multiple felonies. But he did. So now there’s a warrant out for his arrest and a hearing to forfeit his bond. Which means, the possibility of him going to jail and losing his freedom. In order to stay out of jail rightContinue reading “He missed court so now he might forfeit his bond”

I had surgery this morning.

A septoplasty, again. Necessary, feeling alright after it. Recovery for a few days. But this isn’t as much about that as it is how grateful I am for my partner. He’s here for me every step of the way – holding my hand as I stand up and walk around, going to the store toContinue reading “I had surgery this morning.”